Retraining the Mind To aid in retraining your mind, remember to ask yourself the following questions in all circumstances, private or interpersonal: 1. Do I Choose To Experience Peace Of Mind Or Do I Choose to Experience Conflict? 2. Do I Choose to Experience Love or Fear? 3. Do I Choose to Be A Love Finder Or A Fault Finder? 4. Do I Choose To Be A Love Giver Or A Love Seeker? 5. Is this Communication (Verbal Or Non-verbal) Loving To The Other Person And Is It Loving To Me?