Hazardous Materials for Relationships and Love 1. Negative Images Don’t cloud your corner with unhappy thoughts. Pictures of ex-lovers, icebergs, limp noodles, riots, or the Hindenburg explosion won’t foster loving thoughts. Thoughts are energy too, very much related to the energy of love. 2. Unfriendly Stuff Cactus, Venus flytraps, and stink weed plants do not a loving statement make. Lose the medieval weapon collection too. 3.  Frigid Stuff The air conditioner and refrigerator are working against you if you want a hot love life.